Suffer in Silence- No More

Choosing an alternative lifestyle helped me break the chains of my upbringing. ********** It’s a lovely memory. Sitting outside at an Italian cafe in Cuenca, Ecuador, drinking a complex Argentinian Malbec, noshing on a spicy charcuterie tray, and sharing travel stories with new friends.  But what really sticks out for me was a comment a…

Evolution of a Polycule- April 2020

Wow- it’s been a while since I’ve done a polycule update. Probably because it’s not that interesting with the whole world in lockdown and before that, I’ve been in a new live-in situation with my partner DJDM, so we haven’t really been out on new dates or meeting new people. Also, I was kind of…

My Friendships are Key

One of the things I love most about the way I live my polyamorous life is the freedom I have to make and grow strong friendships. My relationships with my romantic partners purposefully don’t take up all the space in my life. (To the best of my ability!) My romantic relationships structure allows me to…

Mindful and Motivated for 2020

Everywhere I look, all my favorite writers are talking about goals and plans for the New Year. I did a post about how far I have come in the last 10 years, but my “goals” section of that post was not very full. The thing is, I stopped making resolutions many years ago. At one…