My Friendships are Key

One of the things I love most about the way I live my polyamorous life is the freedom I have to make and grow strong friendships. My relationships with my romantic partners purposefully don’t take up all the space in my life. (To the best of my ability!) My romantic relationships structure allows me to…

Mindful and Motivated for 2020

Everywhere I look, all my favorite writers are talking about goals and plans for the New Year. I did a post about how far I have come in the last 10 years, but my “goals” section of that post was not very full. The thing is, I stopped making resolutions many years ago. At one…

The Ending and a Beginning

It seems like life is always about ending and beginning again. A few weeks ago on social media, there was a wave of posts asking “What have you  accomplished or how have you changed over the past decade?” There is no way I could talk about the ways my life has changed in the past…

Evolution of a Polycule- October 2019

(Links to other Evolution of a Polycule posts at the bottom.) *********** Getting excited! I am finally going to see my German partners real soon! It was time for an update of the polycule, so… here we go! I recently posted this… which tells you a lot about my three partners and my “solo-poly journey……

Inked, Too

I have a new tattoo. Click here to read about my other tattoos and their meaning.  *******  So a few weeks ago in Medellin, I got a new tattoo. It’s awesome! It healed easily and beautifully. (Unlike my last one which was kind of a disaster. I was super nervous about doing this one because…