Evolution of a Polycule- April 2020

Wow- it’s been a while since I’ve done a polycule update. Probably because it’s not that interesting with the whole world in lockdown and before that, I’ve been in a new live-in situation with my partner DJDM, so we haven’t really been out on new dates or meeting new people. Also, I was kind of…

I’m Solo-Poly: No Relationship Escalator for Me

When most people talk about romantic relationships they usually mean something like this the following: Relationship Escalator. The default set of societal expectations for intimate relationships. Partners follow a progressive set of steps, each with visible markers, toward a clear goal. The goal at the top of the Escalator is to achieve a permanently monogamous (sexually…